Hi!

You can breathe and relax boy, because there isn´t any problem.

Masturbation activity begins at a very young age, little boys and girls use it as a way of getting to know their bodies and therefore themselves. While going through this process, they learn about pleasure and relaxation, among other things. This is learning that will go on all through our lives until we die.

Teenagers usually jump into this activity with enthusiasm, as they are keen to learn as much as they can about erotic and sexual life; also they find that "hand jobs" give them pleasure and a feeling of tranquillity. When we have an orgasm, our body segregates a chemical substance that makes us feel relaxed. So the erotic activity, above all masturbation, will be the erotic behaviour in which most adolescents will get involved in most frequently.

All through our Western history masturbation has been the object of many interpretations. All of them done on a moral basis. So there is no problem if you do it four times a week or however many times you feel like it. The only negative outcome of this behaviour will be if masturbation makes you feel guilty because you think you shouldn´t be doing it. If that is the case, it would be good for you to talk about it with somebody you trust.

Masturbation itself doesn't have any negative consequences at all. When you have a partner, you will show and teach each other what you know, what you like, and together you will find ways for communication and pleasure...masturbation will be one of them for sure.

Take it easy and let it flow!

agurtzane